Ways to change the personality you own.

Shivani Sati
4 min readJun 28, 2021
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Change is the law of nature but the concern is whether the change shifts towards a good cause or not. The world we see today is turning towards its own created lifestyle which may or may not be correct.

Human behavior can be defined as the kind of personality one owns. It is the result of our thought process that turns our thinking into action and eventually, it becomes our personality. Further, it could be understood as the attitude of a being and the values one follow are together contribute to his personality and hence behavior

The collective aura today

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Aura is defined as the field of energy one experiences after interacting with someone. The energy that one person withholds is very powerful. If he is a strong soul then he has the power to bring about a revolution in people’s life but if he is a vengeful soul (Tamsic) then he has the power to alter the good mindset of someone. The thing to ponder is one’s aura influence the life around us.

  • The major vengeful traits one holds in the present day are temper, jealousy, anger, pessimism, grievance, fear, etc.
  • People are feeling left out by small disputes.
  • Relationships are more prone today.
  • People are finding happiness outside as they could not fulfill them by themselves.
  • habit of dependency on our moods over others is becoming common.

The shift from being moral to being vengeful

One can understand the term being moral as the quality of an individual that makes him a civilized human. The moral one knows what deed is right for his karma. And these are the people that are necessary to elevate society and their quality of life.

The term vengeful is a synonym for the one who believes in taking revenge for the things done wrong with him. He would contribute to creating chaos in the world. And with disappointment, it is the majority of the people with whom we are living in. Spare some time in finding the right attribute matching your personality.

There is nothing to amaze about that society is changing its way from being moral to being vengeful due to the lifestyle today. Lifestyle is nothing but the manner and routine one follows to live a life.

Everything depends upon if we are taking care of ourselves and it is not just a matter of days, this is applied throughout your every single day. The shifts may be described as-

  • The desire to earn more and the workload on the people today made them believe that work is the only priority and this is the reason for the development of many lifestyle-related diseases in youngsters.
  • There is a clear difference between the life then and the life today.
  • The advent of social media upon each individual’s atmosphere is filling more information and hence the information is doing much worse than good.
  • During previous times, people were less engaged in exploring the world outside, and hence they took care of the world inside.
  • This is an immense measure that is, the less you know, the less you think and the less your thoughts come out into action.
  • Taking care of this inner world is divine, you will experience enormous energy that is not wasted upon chaos, unnecessary debates. Now you are in charge of your lush garden that is, your mind.

What should one do for a fruitful shift?

People say be positive and keep affirming yourself. We say alright, we would do it. When any odd situation strikes all of the affirmation goes into vain as we feel defeated once again. You may ponder upon these facts-

Your thought process is being driven by your subconscious mind and this dude needs proof. You have to prove that you are capable of achieving a certain aim. For ex- if you affirm yourself that you would not do anger then at least prove one time that you actually don’t when odds are surrounding you.

  • For achieving this success for proving your subconscious mind that you actually can do it, make a vow of self-restraint for about 3 days and take it as a task.
  • When you complete your task, that is after 3 days, you will be startled by seeing that your body is developing a habit for what you wish for.

When you expect something and that doesn’t go according to you, then you still have ways to change the scene.

  • All you have to do is just don’t bother by seeing things not going your way. You have to think that In your imagination how this scene has been taken place and just respond in that way.
  • This is seeming as if you are responding according to how you think about someone or something.
  • When you match your thoughts with the reality you want to experience, you will be startled that wonders can happen. Your one good initiation can change the entire scene.

This is not philosophy, this is physics.

Remember the amount of power and energy we hold, is limited and we are thinking tirelessly without thinking even once about our soul.

Everything on our planet needs the energy to operate. Are we providing that energy to our minds and soul? And after not providing, do we have the right to complain that we have anger issues, less patience, fear, anxiety, and much more?

Ask yourself, one who takes care will harvest good in future, one who doesn’t care about anything, would not harvest anything.

But what about that person who feeds wrong, what would he harvest, toxic produce.

Hence, this is utmost “feeding wrong is more detrimental than feeding nothing” ponder yourself.

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Shivani Sati

Impulsive to pour what I imbibe from within and from the surrounding.